Sharing Our Lives

“We loved you so much that we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well, because you had become so dear to us.” (1 Thessalonians 2:8) “…had become…” this past tense verb phrase plays a very important role in the interpretation of this passage. It shows that there is some history behind this relationship- it has already been developing- there was a process involved. Paul, Silas, and Timothy worked at their relationship with the Thessalonians. Acquaintances (and even friends) don’t become “dear” over night. A person can have many friends, but only a few that are truly “dear”. So…how do they reach this intimate level of friendship? …by spending time with them, walking alongside them through the good times and bad times, loving them in spite of their little quirks, initiating forgiveness, and being genuine. Basically, sharing life with them…being vulnerable, real, and unselfish. Preaching the gospel to the Thessalonians was not something to cross off the apostles’ “ministry to-do list”, it was an act of love and true friendship…a delight. As Paul, Silas, and Timothy shared their lives with the Thessalonians, it was natural to share their faith with them. After all, their lives were centered around Christ. “…to live is Christ…” (Philippians 1:21) So, are you trying to witness to someone about Jesus? Don’t think of it as an item to check off your to-do list. No! Share your life, invest, and spend time with them! Be real. Show your heart. Live out your faith. Then, you will have many people that are truly “dear” to you!